Throughout our lives, we are given moments where we have the ability to change the course of our whole journey. I believe you are constantly given choices but it is up to you to realize whether it’s an opportunity. Looking back at my own life, I have realized that there have been multiple opportunities that have gotten me to where I am today.
At six years old, I was given the opportunity to come to the United States of America to study. Coming in without even knowing how to introduce myself, I could have easily given up and asked for my parents to take me back. My parents knew what was best for me and I trusted their judgment. Now fifteen years later, I am grateful for where I am today and the sacrifices they had to make.
At sixteen years old, I was given the opportunity to move to Overland Park. Coming to a brand new high-school as a junior not knowing anyone, I could have asked my parents to move back to Topeka. I trusted my parents, again, and believed their judgment was correct. Now five years later, I have made some of the best friends in my life from that decision.
At eighteen years old, I was told that I had to complete my undergraduate degree before I was twenty-one if I wanted to stay in the country. Due to visa restrictions, I had to stand out from the crowd. My parents told me that I did not have to go through with it and go back to India if I wanted. I chose to stay and finish what I started. Now three years later, I have realized skills in me that I had no idea I had.
I met my first mentor at a gas station. He simply asked me what my future goals were. I responded with my plan of eventually becoming a business owner. We met at Starbucks later that week and discussed our passions. That simple conversation has led me to learn so much about what it means to have goals and how to achieve them.
I met my second mentor through my parents. I was going through a tough time deciding whether I should go to graduate school or in the workforce. I briefly talked to him for five minutes and I knew what I should do. I could have stopped that relationship right there but I didn’t. Now almost two years later, he has given me priceless knowledge about spirituality and finding your passion.
When I made these decisions, I had no idea they were opportunities. These are only a few that have benefitted me. There are probably hundreds that I have missed and did not take. I have recently realized there are multiple perspectives to every situation. It is up to us to choose the right one. You see, we are not defined by the cards we are dealt with. We are defined by how we play them.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this post! I would love to hear your thoughts below! Tune in next Sunday to learn about trust!